Hummingbird Don’t Fly Away – A Wedding Day Tribute To Lesli’s Grandmother Stella

United States - Oct 2013 -  Back in the day, the popular television show,

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“MacGyver”, was a world-wide sensation. Children wanted to be a “MacGyver”.  The MacGyver character’s main assets were his utilitarian application of scientific knowledge and inventive use of everyday items – along with his always near Swiss Army knife. This American action-adventured television series encouraged my like inclinations too. In fact, I am a sort of “MacGyver” wedding officiator – researching the science of a matter and finding an inventive use for it within a marriage ceremony. Shouldn’t all wedding ceremony writers be a kind of “MacGyver”?   

I was reminded of the “MacGyver” character today, and how his skills could revolutionize the event industry. Whether planning a wedding reception or a marriage ceremony….. A “MacGyver” wedding coordinator or a “MacGyver” wedding officiator has its merits.  While sitting with a bride and groom, the “MacGyver” in me was again inspired.  There, this marrying couple and I began to build the sentimentally profound words of their marriage ceremony. And, then, the bride remembered her Grandmother Stella’s love for the hummingbird.  - A granddaughter’s love recollects the sweetest things, and this was one of them. 

So, like a “MacGyver” of the wedding officiator variety, I set myself to the task of inventively finding a way to honour Grandmother Stella.  And, along this creative road, I learned about the hummingbird.  This week, Lesli is married.  As Grandma Stella is verbally revered, my efforts are to be well rewarded by the tears of gratitude from so many. This is my wedding gift to the bride, and it would make Grandmother Stella smile. - She is not lost forever. Not out-of-mind. Certainly, not far from her granddaughter’s loving heart.

Because Those Gone Before Us & Their Story Should Often Be Fondly Recollected

When creating a "Wedding Ceremony Values" list, don't forget to remember someone you love and miss! 

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Today, having just about finished the Hummingbird Tribute to Grandma Stella, I sat with a recently engaged couple.  As wedding musicians, they had seen many officiators, but, none like me. As we composed the words and developed the ideas of their marriage ceremony, they were stunned.  They had their “MacGyver” wedding officiator, and this was a good thing.  We have already begun working on some new ideas, which will be shared later.

In the meantime, well, it is about written, a “Welcome” to the wedding guests, which includes my original tribute to Grandma Stella. I thought that I would share a few words with you, We still have a few touches to add, and things to tweak ,but, almost there. 

Wedding Day – A Bride Remembers Grandma Stella & Hummingbirds

“Most sentimentally, this day would not be the same without a cheerful remembrance.

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Sometimes the smallest things can change our lives, and bring the sweetest recollections.  It is that “small thing” which makes us smile or laugh or tear joyfully. On this wedding day, there is a “smallest thing” that inspires strong and happy sentiments for Lesli of her Grandma Stella – That “smallest thing”, the “hummingbird”! Grandma Stella loved her hummingbird visitors. Each one, with its eighty times per second fluttering of wings and humming noises.  Their flying left, right, backwards, upside down or in a figure eight. With their minuscule hummingbird hearts, each one with its 1, 260 heart beats per minute.  These tiny creatures provided countless hours of pure delight to Grandma Stella. Their beautiful iridescent colours and visual displays brought Stella such pleasure.  So, on this joy ­­- filled occasion, how fitting to remember Grandma Stella and her hummingbirds………. ! All of what she loved, silently and sentimentally influences this minute. The shear memory of her brings a fuller inspiration to this marriage. At this threshold moment of marrying, Lesli wanted you to know about her heart of love for Grandma Stella, and, how she holds close her memory. These “snapshots in time” go happily into her future. And, today, smile along with her too -- for with any luck-- a hummingbird might pass this way. – A sort of “kiss from the heavens” and a gift from Grandma Stella, on the occasion of her granddaughter’s wedding day."   (Copyright Dr. Linda – 2013)

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Wedding Ceremony Temperament - Understanding A Bride And Groom From The Start

Wedding Ceremony Temperament Series Understanding The

Bride And Groom Client

From The Start
By Celebrity Wedding Officiator - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott

We bring our personalities, our indelible character preferences to everything we do. Like ink that is permanent, or glue, or that which is in its very self basicly unchangeable. These form our decision in the daily things of living. Ever wonder why you picked that wedding dress? That Wedding Photographer or that Wedding Officiator?  Yes, you are on a sort of "personality auto-pilot". I am Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott, and I actually established a type of "Wedding Psychology".

Not Being A Student Of This Subject And Its People, As Wedding Professional....

Even, As A Bride Or Groom Is Costly

If a bride and groom has a prosporous wedding budget, then, go ahead just pick. Money is no object. Yet, even the wealthy, such as those Celebrity Couples for whom I have written over the years, it is easier to rightly start.  And, that takes a trained "Wedding Therapist" to navigate.

For those on a "shoe-string", budget, which is most of us, knowing something about yourself also has great benefits. That is what I and others in our group are trained to surmise early on. And, we do this regularly. I will write another time in detail about many aspects of the "Wedding Ceremony Temperament"

What Does That Mean To Me As A Bride Or A Wedding Professional

Well, let's apply this to just the wedding vows. But, I could even discuss this in the light of other areas related to "getting married".  And, yes, just as having a generous wedding budget or not, can influence Wedding Ceremony Temperament related decision making......So too can the skill or starting insight of a Wedding Professional grate against these seemingly invisible human traits.  In short, for me, a simple conversation can determine what materials I present, or don't  as A Wedding Ceremony Writer or as a Wedding Officiator. The bride and groom that perceives your intuitive ability to "know them" from the start, can determine whether or not you are their selected wedding services provider.

Defining A Wedding Ceremony Temperament! Like A Fingerprint or DNA....

In psychology, temperament refers to those aspects of an individual's personality. For example, are they introverted or extroverted? Temperament is innate rather than learned - A personal stamp from God ... The fingerprint or DNA of the human soul! Although, beyond the scope of this wedding blog article and a closer look at the subject, here is a brief summation... I just want brides and grooms, and Wedding Professionals to think about it just a bit.

Wedding Ceremony Temperament is innate to each bride and groom - It is each's view of the world, and life through preferences.

The Wedding Ceremony Writer - A Detective Of Preferences

He are a few basic examples of deducing a couple's wedding ceremony temperament:

The words that make one comfortable or not, define preference. Do you like the word "Bond" or "Unity"? The word, "Commitment" or "Friendship". The "liked" word picked helps to clarify the Wedding Ceremony Temperament. It is both the Wedding Ceremony Writers guide and a marrying couples friend.

Is the bride or groom more verbal or visual or tactile? Yes, finding a preference here, helps the ceremony writer access the "main header" content suggestions for consideration.

Is the bride or groom more "Historical" or "Forward Thinking" or "A Popular Culturalist"? For further example, having just presided The Real Housewives of Orange County marriage ceremony, a bride and lover of this Reality Show might enjoy something derived from "Reality" show quotes. - Of which, there are many Reality Shows and related quotes about love and marriage. Preference here, further helps to gather material wording for the ceremony.

Is the bride or groom "inclusive" or "exclusive" in relationships?

There is much more to Wedding Ceremony Temperament, and the trained wedding ceremony writer, like a Doctor or Lawyer, is a student and teacher of "persons". As a word craftsmen, it takes years of education in human behaviour, public speech presentation, language building, and so much more. But, in general, it is something that can be taught to professionals, and applied to their particular wedding industry services.

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