Thursday, July 25, 2013

www.facebook.com/celebratingourbaby Launched By Dr. Linda - "Tell Them What They Need to Know" - "Baby Values" List For Baby Dedications & Baby Christenings


California - by Celebrity Wedding Officiator, Dr. Linda - July 25, 2013 - Celebratingourbaby is launched by Baby Dedication, Baby Christening & Baby Naming Ceremony Officiator, Educator & Writer.  Custom Written Baby Celebration Ceremonies by Dr. Linda and the writers of The Clergy Network and Legallymarried - See the image "Tell Me What To Know".  Describing the importance of a "Baby Values" list constructed by The Baby Celebrations Ceremony Officiator and the new parents. Call us about your baby's dedication, christening or naming ceremony. info@theclergynetwork.com  & 714 970 8839.  "Like" us on www.pinterest.com/livingfestive






Sunday, July 21, 2013

Celebrity Wedding Officiant - Dr. Linda - "What I Like About The Orange County California Wedding Ceremony Venue At Arroyo Trabuco County Club"

July 20, 2013 - Arroyo Trabuco Country Club Wedding Location Venue - By - Southern
California Celebrity Wedding Ceremony Officiator, Dr. Linda:  
"Since 1989, I have been a wedding ceremony writer and officiator. My couples have the distinct pleasure of utilizing original words and ideas to express important things about their love-filled commitment to a conjoint future life."  Most essentially, "words" have meaning, and on the wedding day even more so. From the grandparent to the parents, along with the marrying couple's friends and extended family members, the depth of the words and feelings invoked in just 15- 30 minutes is dynamic and monumental.  The marrying couple share a one-of-a-kind history with the guest participants, and there should be no under-estimating the impact. So, what does this have to do with my Arroyo Trabuco Country Club wedding? Plenty! 
(Dr. Linda a Celebrity Wedding Officiator seen on Bravo T.V. in The Real Housewives of Orange County Wedding of Tamra and Eddie & Food Network Chefs Wedding 2013) (Dr. Linda is available to preside your Arroyo Trabuco Wedding Ceremony!)

The Wedding Ceremony Atmosphere Is Enhanced By By Location, Ceremony Words and Ideas,  Human Relationships & The Wedding Officiator Presentation 

As a wedding guest, just imagine your first impressions of the wedding location. - The sights, sounds, smells! Then the excitement of being invited to your wedding ceremony view. Already with your senses enjoying everything overwhelmingly pleasant about the location. Now, the moment has come, the parents are being seated, and the "Processional" is beginning. Then, the entrance of the groom, finally the bride and her escort. As the music fades, the opening words of the wedding officiator. At that moment feelings known and unknown exude from every direction - emotion reigns supreme!  Here is the "Plenty" to which I was speaking above.....The Ceremony Words and Presentation Melodic and Engaging. The Music Melodic and Inviting. The Out-door Wedding Ceremony location harmonious and pleasant to all human senses.  From the comfort of the seating to the panoramic view to the over-all pleasant experience sets the tone for the guests fullest enjoyment of the ceremony moment!

Some of What I Enjoyed About Arroyo Trabuco Country Club


As an experienced wedding officiator, my 62 page ceremony checklist is utilized at each of my officiating occasions. At my Arroyo Trabuco County Club wedding there was no exception to my professional wedding officiator tradition. The following is a wedding promotional video for Arroyo Trabuco Country Club.  If looking to hold your event at Arroyo Trabuco,  I am also happy to discuss my ceremony presiding experience there, and my impressions of the wedding ceremony aspects of this wedding venue.

Invite Dr. Linda or The Clergy Network to officiate your Arroyo Trabuco Golf Club Wedding Ceremony

Wedding Officiator Impression 1 

(In the future, I will write more about what I like at this location as a Wedding Ceremony Officiator)

Firstly, make certain that your Orange County Wedding Officiator has experiential knowledge of Arroyo Trabuco Country Club Wedding Ceremony Location.  Like myself.

"In general, the wedding venue is cozy and well -situated. The ceremony area is pleasantly private, well - kept, sporting extravagant scenic views. With its slight and tasteful "arbour- like" feel, it is rustic and quaint with a well-defined ceremony environment. This description reasonably shared by its adjacent patio vistas for pre-ceremony or reception refreshments." by Celebrity Wedding Officiator -Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - http://www.facebook.com/legallymarried 

Finally, if you were married at Arroyo Trabuco Country Club, let us know what you liked about their ceremony location at  www.facebook.com/legallymarried

Please See Arroyo Trabuco Country Club Wedding Location Video Below



About The Author -  Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried     - The Clergy Network of Southern California customizes wedding ceremony wording and marriage vows. From Hollywood Celebrity to Olympic Sport's Stars To Music Rock Legends and United State's Senator's Son, our Dr. Linda writes with the history, personality and current trends in mind. Most Recently presiding Tamra and Eddie's Reality Show Wedding for Bravo and The Real Housewives of Orange County. 

TCN, also provides professional Wedding Officiators, Marriage Ministers, Civil Wedding Officiators, Wedding Clergy, Non-Denominational Wedding Officiants, and others to perform the marriage ceremony. Orange County California Marriage License Issuance on day of the wedding, at wedding rehearsal or evening or weekend appointments also available.  To the Southern California wedding and event planner or wedding coordinator, Dr. Linda or The Clergy Network has been their professional referral for 24 years!

Bride Name Change Life Coaches - Personal appointment and software for the process of marriage last name change. 

Copyright 2013 - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried  - Twitter - @legallymarried  - blog.theclergynetwork.com     -   May not be used without authors express written permission. info@theclergynetwork.com   - 714 970 8839

Terry's Sad Wedding Story - The Bride Cried And Cried And Cried! - He Was a Fake And He Ruined My Special Day!

Wedding Day Ruined
 July 21, 2013Terry was usually a discriminating Southern California bride, but selected her Wedding Officiant without discerning interest. She decided without research,  "He is available and cheap, great, let's book him!" Her story is especially troublesome, in that it is a true - Terry, made a careless choice, and sadly, joined the ranks of a growing number of wedding ceremony nightmare stories.  After the fact, hearing that The Clergy Network of Southern California offered the only legitimately peer reviewed, experientially and academically refined officiators' group in Southern California, Terry contacted us.  "Help me", Terry said. "What do I do, he ruined my ceremony with bad jokes and didn't even file my marriage license yet! What recourse do I have?"  Terry, didn't know where to report a Wedding Clergy or Wedding Officiator concern in California. And, she didn't like our answer!


A Wedding Professional Asks Dr. Linda


"What is Up With The Influx of 
Inexperienced & Untrained Wedding 
Officiators In Southern California?"

So, you think, don't Wedding Officiators go through a peer review and training process... right? The answer,  "Wrong, not typically now. But, back in the day, yes! Now, it is over to the consumer to educate their own self, and without the old assumption that a Wedding Officiator is a Professional in the same way as any other professional. Locating those officiators still legitimately trained is essential. Back to poor Terry.... There was no one to help her, she had ruined her own wedding day by not doing her research and by making assumptions. But, how much is really Terry's fault, after all just about anyone can become a Wedding Officiator in California! And, the only peer review with the "Faux" Wedding Officiators is their on-line ordination providers billing of the yearly "officiator membership dues!

Southern California Bride at the Bridal Show Trends When Selecting A Wedding Officiant



At a recent bridal show, it was again affirmed that many couples not only pick their Wedding Officiants with reluctance, but they do so in complete ignorance! It seems tragic that something so important as the wedding ceremony is treated so casually. After all, the Wedding Clergy or Marriage Officiator has much control during the ceremony presiding. Once the wedding ceremony begins, they can say or do what they want, within their brand of reason. They can espouse their political, religious or other views. They can cut the ceremony short, make it longer, crack distasteful jokes, insult the cherished ideas of others, or any number of unsatisfactory things. Their words and actions will be in the minds of the wedding guests, the marrying couple's families, and the bride and groom for a potential life time! Shouldn't the memories be pleasant, bringing back fond recollections? There is only the one chance to "get it right"So, why so laid back, or trusting or uninformed about Wedding Officiants?


Show Me Your Officiator Related Academic and Peer Reviewed Accomplishments And Then I Will Decide!



At the bridal shows, marrying couples seemed to be more concerned about price than the service being contracted. Or, just the things that "glitter or taste good". Perhaps its the economy or something more permanent - a shifting in the culture, which devalues the role of Wedding Officiator. Let's face it, the traditionally serious nature of the sacred tradition of the marriage ceremony has eroded in the last few decades. - "Let's just get this over with, and then get to the party!" is often the mantra!  But, what about considering the older generations attending or the children? And, in actual fact, what about appealing to self-interest, as what couple really wants their ceremony to offend or to be poorly executed!

So, shouldn't a bride and groom or a referring event professional say to the officiator "Show me your legitimately earned academic degrees and experiential pedigree before we book or recommend you? Did you become a Wedding Clergy, Officiator or Celebrant the legitimate way? Like when selecting other wedding professionals, should not informed research be incorporated into the decision making process? What about professional references? Will the prospective Wedding Officiant provide a "real" contract with specific services outlined? Will the Wedding Officiator guarantee qualified emergency backup in the event of their illness? Will the contracted Marriage Minister be the one actually presiding on the wedding day? As to their personal appearance, will the Wedding Officiant wear what the couple requests? Will the Marriage Celebrant provide and then stick to the ceremony wording chosen by the marrying couple? Will the presiding officiator file the marriage license in a proper and timely manner? What is the Wedding Officiator's history in any regard? Is the referring event professional receiving a "Kick- Back" from the officiator or advertising in their Wedding Venue publication. There are so many things to know about selecting a Wedding Officiant and Terry did not know them!

With the rise of Wedding Officiant "fakes", it is even more of a problem than before! Concerned only about money or promoting their personal views or stroking their ego, illegitimate Wedding Officiants are duping brides and grooms in the Southern California area. There were three cases alone in the last few years surrounding "On-line Ordained Officiators" disappearing  with couples deposits or not filing over 100 marriages licenses before disappearing. Some might say, "Well the couple gets what they deserve. After all they should have done their research!". Whatever your opinion, it is our mission, here at The Clergy Network of Southern California, as genuine Wedding Officiants, to say a few words about the subject. Our hope is that there will be less "Terrys'" out there, and more couples with great wedding ceremony memories! 


What Else Really Happened To Terry The Bride During Her Marriage Ceremony? 



The only recourse that Terry might have was through a court of law. After all, as poorly a job the officiator did, he still showed up! She had no contract stating expectations. The officiator offered no assurance of the ceremony wording content. His poor taste in jokes were never agreed to or not. His lack of contact with the couple, loosely securing his service via telephone and e-mail, led to his unfamiliarity with the couple's first and last names. As wrong as the officiator was about his behaviour during the wedding ceremony, Terry was still legally married! Terry opted for the officiator's "legal right to bind the marriage", and nothing more. Terry got that for which she paid, and, as a result, did she pay!

So, what else did the marriage officiator do to ruin Terry's wedding day? Well a number of things! Apart from the bad jokes, poor delivery of the text, getting the couple's respective first names wrong, etc, another of the most troubling was Terry's having to publicly correct this Southern California Wedding Officiator numerous times during the ceremony! From the beginning, when the Wedding Officiant asked, "Who gives this woman to be married to this man?", Terry had to give commentary. Her shouted response to the Wedding Officiant's goofs, "Mom, I didn't tell him to say that!" It got worse from there. Choose your Wedding Officiant wisely!

Who Is The Clergy Network Wedding Officiants of Southern California?


Like us at www.facebook.com/legallymarried   – The Clergy Network of Southern California has a membership of civil or religious marriage ceremony Wedding Officiants which travel to south land locations for the purpose of presiding marriage ceremonies, including Celebrity Wedding Officiators. To learn more about the enjoying experience of customizing your marriage ceremony, the issuance of a private marriage license and a Southern California Wedding Officiant contact – info@theclergynetwork.com  or our main office at 714 970 8839.


About The Author -  Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried      - The Clergy Network of Southern California customizes wedding ceremony wording and marriage vows. From Hollywood Celebrity to Olympic Sport's Stars To Music Rock Legends and United State's Senator's Son, our Dr. Linda writes with the history, personality and current trends in mind. Most Recently presiding Tamra and Eddie's Reality Show Wedding for Bravo and The Real Housewives of Orange County.   Now working on two Food Network Chefs marriage ceremony wording. 

TCN, also provides professional Wedding Officiators, Marriage Ministers, Civil Wedding Officiators, Wedding Clergy, Non-Denominational Wedding Officiants, and others to perform the marriage ceremony. Orange County California Marriage License Issuance on day of the wedding, at wedding rehearsal or evening or weekend appointments also available.  To the Southern California wedding and event planner or wedding coordinator, Dr. Linda or The Clergy Network has been their professional referral for 24 years!

Bride Name Change Life Coaches - Personal appointment and software for the process of marriage last name change. 

Copyright 2013 - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried  - Twitter - @legallymarried  - blog.theclergynetwork.com     -   May not be used without authors express written permission. info@theclergynetwork.com   


Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Food Quotes In Former Food Network Chefs' Wedding Ceremony By Celebrity Wedding Officiator

California - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - Celebrity Wedding Officiator and Ceremony Writer 
Food Quotes In Your Marriage Ceremony Or Wedding Vows 
My Marrying Couple Loves Food - Former Food Network Chefs' To Marry


 So, you love food and wine, but your Wedding Officiator's wording is "bland" in every way. He or she just doesn't have the skill, the time or, possibly the inclination to be different. So, Ask Dr. Linda, the Reality Show - The Real Housewives of Orange County Wedding Officiator for Tamra and Eddie to write your vows, or your Wedding Ceremony for that matter. Dr. Linda, writing two former Food Network Chefs' wedding ceremony can write yours too! 
Food Quotes in Your Marriage Ceremony or Wedding Vows

Collecting Wedding Ceremony Wording Materials
 For Food Chef Wedding in 2013

Dr. Linda may use the following quote in her 2013 Food Network chefs' marriage ceremony. As one of the many "Food" or "Wine" quotes being used, this one will be reworked as a part of either the "Introduction to Marriage", "The Welcome", or other segment. As a quote, it also may used as as part of the "Food" themed Wedding Vow!  Dr. Linda has mastered the art of Ceremony Writing to the occupation, hobbies, culture and personality of a bride or groom. 

Wedding Quote   ....."Worries go down better with soup."  ~Jewish Proverb ......


Step One - Is ascertaining the "Wedding Ceremony Temperament" of a bride and groom. As a Wedding Ceremony and Marriage Vows Writer, Dr. Linda looks to understand many things about the bride and groom, including "Personality Type", "History", and other factors.  There are articles on this blog which are the start of a series just on this subject of "Wedding Ceremony Personality".   So, after certain "Personality" signatures are established, then the collecting of material for the bride and groom. So, here, at this juncture is where a marrying couple's personal "Lifestyle Preferences" are studied. These "preferences" are based upon a series of questions, and the trained observation of one experienced in "Personality Theory"  In this case, the marrying couple are former Food Network Chefs, both have made "Food and Wine" their hobbies and professions. Even competing professionally on The International Food Network Channel.  So, the collecting of "Food and Wine" related quotes, favoured by both bride and groom, only begins the "Behaviourist Wedding Ceremony" writer's journey to fashion the perfect marrying words. 

About Dr. Linda's Decades of Theme Centered 

Wedding Ceremony and Marriage Vows


Dr. Linda has written, many types of  specialized Marriage Vows such as related to "Golfing", "Sports", "Fairytale", "Cowboy" and others. Dr. Linda has been writing vows for decades, and is the first to be prolifically creative in this way. In fact, to this day, she remains the sole writer of the truly creative Marriage Vows and Marriage Ceremony in America. Her Marriage Vows, previously published for International use, and original wordings found on custom Marriage Certificates Nationally. 

Former Food Network Chefs To Marry With Food Quotes I Want Dr. Linda To Write 
My Marriage Vows

Dr. Linda writes Marriage Vows and Ceremonies for couples world-wide. She also officiates Wedding Ceremonies in California, but is available to preside outside the State of California.  If you wish Celebrity Wedding Officiator, Dr. Linda to write your vows, contact us through the information below. 

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About The Author -  Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried     - The Clergy Network of Southern California customizes wedding ceremony wording and marriage vows. From Hollywood Celebrity to Olympic Sport's Stars To Music Rock Legends and United State's Senator's Son, our Dr. Linda writes with the history, personality and current trends in mind. Most Recently presiding Tamra and Eddie's Reality Show Wedding for Bravo and The Real Housewives of Orange County. 

TCN, also provides professional Wedding Officiators, Marriage Ministers, Civil Wedding Officiators, Wedding Clergy, Non-Denominational Wedding Officiants, and others to perform the marriage ceremony. Orange County California Marriage License Issuance on day of the wedding, at wedding rehearsal or evening or weekend appointments also available.  To the Southern California wedding and event planner or wedding coordinator, Dr. Linda or The Clergy Network has been their professional referral for 24 years!

Bride Name Change Life Coaches - Personal appointment and software for the process of marriage last name change. 

Copyright 2013 - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried  - Twitter - @legallymarried  - blog.theclergynetwork.com     -   May not be used without authors express written permission. info@theclergynetwork.com   


Saturday, July 6, 2013

Celebrity Wedding Officiator - Dr. Linda Looks At The Alta Vista Country Club Wedding Ceremony Location

Alta Vista C.C. Wedding Ceremony Area

What Do We Know About Your 
Wedding Ceremony Location? 


The Clergy Network of Southern California & LegallyMarried are Marriage Clergy and Wedding Officiants who have presided wedding ceremonies at hundreds, if not thousands of wedding locations and venues in Southern California.  If you are considering Alta Vista Country Club for your ceremony location, here is an observation from a wedding officiator who has conducted wedding ceremonies there!  We also offer a private consultation at Alta Vista C.C. to discuss the ceremony area from the viewpoint of a wedding officiator. To book a Alta Vista Wedding Ceremony Officiator consultation at: info@theclergynetwork.com


The Alta Vista Country Club - Wedding Ceremony & Banquet Venue

 An Orange County Outdoor Wedding Ceremony Location



Getting married at the Alta Vista Country Club in Placentia, Ca.?  Here is one of the attributes of this outdoor wedding ceremony location. The Clergy Network of Southern California, and Dr. Linda (A Celebrity Wedding Officiator ) are on the "Preferred Vendor List" of your Alta Vista Wedding Location. We will feature other points, in a continuing series.


Celebrity Wedding Officiator, most recently, for The Reality Show, “The Real Housewives of Orange County Wedding of Tamra and Eddie”, (Bravo T.V in the Fall) 

Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott says, “The Alta Vista Country Club wedding ceremony area is private, and consistently well manicured.”

Conclusion:  When a Wedding Officiator presides marriage ceremonies at any location, over time, they are a great judge of the venues upkeep.  Also, about other things. Especially in regards to an outdoor wedding ceremony location, where so many things can effect the pristine nature of the surroundings.  
  • Are the grounds always or usually maintained well? 
  • What can every bride and groom booking an outdoor wedding venue expect as to event staffs professionalism, and the aesthetics of the ceremony grounds?


Dr. Linda's statement above indicates a Wedding Officiator's observation over a period of time. Frequenting a wedding ceremony location as a Wedding Officiator is much like working in a restaurant kitchen and knowing what really goes on behind the scenes daily. The restaurant customer doesn't have that same view.  So, although a seemingly simple observation above, it is profound  for a bride and groom wishing to book an outdoor wedding location. Every marrying couple will want the ceremony area to look the best for their wedding day. Here consistency, and a wedding professional's observation is helpful. 


About The Author -  Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried     - The Clergy Network of Southern California writes custom wedding ceremony wording and marriage vows. From Hollywood Celebrity to Olympic Sport's Stars To Music Rock Legends and United State's Senator's Son, our Dr. Linda writes with the history, personality and current trends in mind. Most Recently presiding Tamra and Eddie's Reality Show Wedding for Bravo and The Real Housewives of Orange County. 

TCN, also provides professional Wedding Officiators, Marriage Ministers, Civil Wedding Officiators, Wedding Clergy, Non-Denominational Wedding Officiants, and others to perform the marriage ceremony. Orange County California Marriage License Issuance on day of the wedding, at wedding rehearsal or evening or weekend appointments also available.  To the Southern California wedding and event planner or wedding coordinator, Dr. Linda or The Clergy Network has been their professional referral for 24 years!

Bride Name Change Life Coaches - Personal appointment and software for the process of marriage last name change. 


Copyright 2013 - Dr. Linda Wainwright Trott - The Clergy Network - www.facebook.com/legallymarried  - Twitter - www.twitter.com/legallymarried  -  www.pinterest.com/livingfestive June 17th 2013- May not be used without authors express written permission. info@theclergynetwork.com